Adolph Hafemann Remembered for His Kindness in Wellesley

Adolph Hafemann, a beloved figure in Wellesley, Ontario, passed away on September 29, 2023, at the age of 95. His life journey, marked by resilience and kindness, left an indelible mark on the community he served for decades. Hafemann’s story began during the tumultuous times following the Second World War, when his family fled Poland amidst the chaos of conflict.

Born on June 27, 1930, in Poland, Adolph was part of a mass migration of ethnic Germans seeking refuge from the advancing Soviet Red Army. His family faced immense hardships, losing everything as they fled. “They lost everything,” shared his son, Peter Hafemann. “The Soviets came in and took all the land, the animals, equipment, barns, machinery.” The family endured harrowing conditions during their escape, with Adolph contracting diphtheria along the way. Despite the challenges, he never lost hope.

Once they reached Germany, the Hafemann family had to rebuild their lives from scratch. Adolph was only 15 when he took a job at a hospital, where he confronted grim realities by handling the aftermath of war. “Even that didn’t break his spirit,” Peter recalled. In 1950, seeking better opportunities, Adolph immigrated to Canada with a mere 15 cents, no winter coat, and no boots, stepping off the train into the snowbanks of Monkton, Ontario.

With Canada actively seeking experienced farm workers, Adolph quickly found employment on a local farm. His family soon followed, as his parents and younger brother, Erik, joined him. Adolph’s journey continued as he transitioned from farm work to becoming a chief mechanic at Tony Day Brand menswear in Kitchener. However, after 15 years, the plant closed, leaving him seeking new opportunities.

In 1970, Adolph and his wife, Emily, purchased a dilapidated grocery store in Wellesley, marking the beginning of a new chapter. They restored the store, which would grow into a thriving business. “They built it up to a $7 million business,” Peter noted, expressing pride in his parents’ achievements. The store became a community hub, with Adolph known for his generosity. He would often include a cake in the bags of families who could not afford such treats, demonstrating his unwavering kindness.

Both Adolph and Emily were recognized for their contributions to the community, receiving the Wellesley Citizen of the Year award, with Adolph honored in 1976 and Emily in 1984. Their commitment to service was further acknowledged with a diploma from the Ontario Association of Agricultural Societies in 2016.

The couple also played a significant role in founding the Wellesley Apple Butter Festival, a cherished local event. After selling their grocery store in 1987, they purchased a rundown farm, which they transformed into a tourist destination known as Firella Creek Bed and Breakfast. They donated the condemned log house on the property to firefighters for practice burns, exemplifying their dedication to the community.

Adolph’s work ethic was remarkable. Even after suffering a spinal aneurysm that paralyzed his right leg over 20 years ago, he continued to contribute actively. “Despite having his right leg paralyzed, he worked harder and longer than a man of 20 years,” said Stortz, his daughter. His perseverance and determination remained a source of inspiration for many.

Adolph Hafemann’s legacy of kindness and hard work will be remembered fondly in Wellesley. His commitment to family, community, and service left a profound impact that resonates with those who knew him. As Peter reflected on his father’s life, he said, “He was an amazing man, who rarely complained.” The community deeply mourns the loss of a man whose spirit and generosity touched countless lives.